Confidence and self-esteem are like the foundation of a house. When a house has a strong foundation, it can stand tall and strong, no matter what kind of weather comes its way. But if the foundation is weak, the house might start to wobble and shake. In the same way, when we have confidence and self-esteem, we can stand strong, even when things get tough.
But sometimes, it’s hard to feel confident. Maybe you’ve had a bad day, or someone said something that made you feel small. That’s okay! Everyone feels that way sometimes. The good news is that we can ask God for help. Just like how you might ask a parent or a teacher for help when you don’t understand something, you can ask God to help you feel strong and confident.
Praying is like having a conversation with God. You don’t need to use big or fancy words. You can talk to God just like you would talk to your best friend. And when you pray for confidence and self-esteem, you’re asking God to help you see yourself the way He sees you: as someone special, important, and loved.
In this blog post, we’re going to share 20 simple prayers that you can say when you need a little extra confidence. Each prayer comes with a Bible verse that reminds us of God’s promises. These verses are like love letters from God, reminding us that we are never alone and that He is always there to help us be brave and strong.
Whether you’re about to take a big test, meet new people, or try something new, these prayers can help you feel more confident and sure of yourself. So, let’s get started!
1. Prayer for Believing in Myself
Dear God, sometimes I feel like I’m not good enough or that I can’t do anything right. There are days when I doubt myself and think that I’m not as special as others. But I know deep in my heart that You made me unique and that You have a purpose for my life. Please help me to remember that I am valuable, not because of what I can do, but because of who I am in You. Help me to see myself through Your eyes, full of love and worth. When I feel down, remind me that with Your help, I can achieve great things. Give me the strength to believe in myself, even when things are hard. Amen.
Scripture: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” – Philippians 4:13
2. Prayer for Strength in Hard Times
God, sometimes life feels so hard, and I don’t know if I can keep going. There are moments when I feel weak, tired, and ready to give up. But I know that You are always with me, even when I’m struggling. Please give me the strength I need to face each day with courage. Help me to remember that You are my rock and my protector, and that I can lean on You when I’m feeling overwhelmed. When challenges come my way, remind me that I am not alone and that with Your help, I can overcome anything. Give me the patience and endurance to keep moving forward, even when the path is tough. Amen.
Scripture: “The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in Him, and He helps me.” – Psalm 28:7
3. Prayer for Courage to Face Fears
Dear God, there are times when I feel so scared that I want to hide away and not face the things that frighten me. Whether it’s meeting new people, speaking up in class, or trying something new, my fears often make me feel small and unsure. But I know that You are always with me, and that I don’t have to be afraid. Please fill my heart with courage and bravery, so that I can face my fears head-on. Help me to trust that You are by my side, holding my hand and guiding me through every scary situation. When I’m afraid, remind me to turn to You for strength and to remember that I am never alone. Amen.
Scripture: “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” – Joshua 1:9
4. Prayer for Feeling Loved
God, there are times when I feel lonely and unloved. Maybe someone said something hurtful, or I didn’t get the attention I wanted. In those moments, it’s easy to forget how much I am loved by You. Please remind me, God, that Your love is bigger and stronger than anything else in this world. Help me to feel Your love deep in my heart, and to remember that I am Your child, special and precious in Your eyes. When I’m feeling down or unloved, wrap me in Your arms and let me feel Your warmth and care. Thank You for loving me just the way I am, no matter what. Amen.
Scripture: “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!” – 1 John 3:1
5. Prayer for Confidence in My Abilities
Dear God, sometimes I look at the things I have to do, and I feel like I’m not smart enough or talented enough to succeed. I worry that I’ll make mistakes or that I’m just not good at anything. But I know that You have given me special gifts and talents, and that I am capable of so much more than I realize. Please help me to see the abilities that You have placed inside me, and to trust in them. When I doubt myself, remind me that I can do all things through You, who gives me strength. Help me to use the gifts You’ve given me to make a difference in the world, and to feel confident in who I am. Amen.
Scripture: “For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” – Ephesians 2:10
6. Prayer for Overcoming Negative Thoughts
God, sometimes my mind is filled with thoughts that make me feel bad about myself. I start to think that I’m not good enough, that I’ll never succeed, or that I’m just not worth it. These thoughts bring me down and make me feel sad. But I know that these negative thoughts are not from You. Please help me to replace them with positive and true thoughts that come from You. Help me to focus on the good things in my life and to remember all the wonderful things You have done for me. When I start to think negatively, remind me to turn to You and to fill my mind with Your truth and love. Amen.
Scripture: “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” – Philippians 4:8
7. Prayer for Trusting God’s Plan
Dear God, sometimes I worry about the future and what will happen to me. I wonder if things will turn out okay, and I feel scared about what lies ahead. But I know that You have a plan for my life, and that it is a good plan. Please help me to trust in Your plan, even when I can’t see what’s coming next. Help me to remember that You are in control, and that You want the best for me. When I start to feel anxious about the future, remind me to put my trust in You and to know that everything will work out according to Your perfect plan. Give me peace in my heart, knowing that You are guiding me every step of the way. Amen.
Scripture: “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” – Jeremiah 29:11
8. Prayer for Finding Joy in Who I Am
God, sometimes I look at other people and wish that I could be more like them. I compare myself to others and feel like I’m not good enough just the way I am. But I know that You made me unique and special, with my own personality, talents, and dreams. Please help me to find joy in who I am, and to be happy with the person You created me to be. When I start to feel down about myself, remind me that I am fearfully and wonderfully made by You, and that I am exactly who You want me to be. Help me to love myself the way You love me, and to celebrate all the things that make me who I am. Amen.
Scripture: “I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” – Psalm 139:14
9. Prayer for Courage to Try New Things
Dear God, trying new things can be really scary. I worry that I might fail, or that I won’t be good at something I’ve never done before. But I know that life is full of opportunities, and that You want me to step out of my comfort zone and grow. Please give me the courage to try new things, even when I’m afraid. Help me to remember that it’s okay to make mistakes, and that You will be there to help me learn and grow from them. When I feel scared to try something new, remind me that You are with me, and that with Your help, I can do anything. Amen.
Scripture: “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” – 2 Timothy 1:7
10. Prayer for Self-Worth
God, there are times when I don’t feel like I’m worth very much. Maybe I’ve made mistakes, or someone has said something that made me feel small and unimportant. But I know that my worth doesn’t come from what I do or what others think of me—it comes from You. Please help me to see myself the way You see me, as someone who is valuable and loved beyond measure. When I start to feel down about myself, remind me that I am Your child, and that nothing can ever change my worth in Your eyes. Help me to hold onto the truth that I am priceless to You, and that I am loved just as I am. Amen.
Scripture: “Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? Yet not one of them is forgotten by God. Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.” – Luke 12:6-7
11. Prayer for Resilience After Failure
Dear God, failing at something can be really hard. It makes me feel like I’m not good enough, and it’s easy to get discouraged and want to give up. But I know that failure is not the end—it’s just a part of learning and growing. Please help me to get back up when I fall, and to try again with a brave heart. Remind me that everyone makes mistakes, and that it’s okay to fail as long as I don’t give up. Give me the resilience to keep moving forward, even when things don’t go as planned. Help me to trust that You are with me, guiding me through every setback and turning them into opportunities for growth. Amen.
Scripture: “For though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again, but the wicked stumble when calamity strikes.” – Proverbs 24:16
12. Prayer for Positive Friendships
God, sometimes I feel lonely or like I don’t have the kind of friends who support and encourage me. I know how important it is to have good friends who lift me up and make me feel valued. Please help me to find friends who bring out the best in me, who are kind, caring, and positive. Help me to be the kind of friend who does the same for others. When I feel lonely, remind me that You are always with me, and that You will bring the right people into my life at the right time. Guide me to build strong, healthy friendships that make me feel confident and loved. Amen.
Scripture: “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.” – Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
13. Prayer for Patience with Myself
Dear God, I often get frustrated with myself when I make mistakes or when things don’t go the way I want them to. It’s hard to be patient when I want to be better right away. But I know that growth takes time, and that I need to be kind and patient with myself, just as You are with me. Please help me to give myself the grace to learn and grow at my own pace. When I feel impatient or disappointed in myself, remind me that it’s okay to take things one step at a time. Help me to trust in Your timing and to be gentle with myself as I become the person You created me to be. Amen.
Scripture: “The Lord is not slow in keeping His promise, as some understand slowness. Instead, He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.” – 2 Peter 3:9
14. Prayer for Overcoming Comparison
God, sometimes I compare myself to others and feel like I don’t measure up. I see what other people have or what they can do, and I start to think that I’m not as good or as valuable. But I know that You made me to be unique, and that my value doesn’t depend on how I compare to others. Please help me to focus on my own journey and to be content with who I am. When I start to compare myself to others, remind me that You have a special plan for my life, and that I am exactly who I need to be. Help me to celebrate my own successes and to be grateful for the gifts You’ve given me. Amen.
Scripture: “Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else.” – Galatians 6:4
15. Prayer for Peace of Mind
Dear God, there are times when my mind is full of worries and fears, and I feel anxious about the future. It’s hard to find peace when I’m constantly thinking about all the things that could go wrong. But I know that You offer a peace that the world cannot give, a peace that comes from trusting in You. Please fill my heart with Your peace and help me to let go of my worries. When my mind is troubled, remind me to turn to You and to rest in the knowledge that You are in control. Help me to trust that no matter what happens, You are with me and that everything will be okay. Amen.
Scripture: “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” – John 14:27
16. Prayer for Boldness in Speaking Up
God, sometimes I feel shy or afraid to speak up, especially when I have something important to say. I worry that others might not listen to me, or that I’ll say the wrong thing. But I know that You have given me a voice for a reason, and that I should use it to speak truth and kindness. Please give me the boldness to speak up when it matters, and to share my thoughts and feelings with confidence. Help me to remember that my words are valuable and that I have the power to make a difference through what I say. When I feel nervous about speaking up, remind me that You are with me, giving me the courage I need. Amen.
Scripture: “The Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.” – 2 Timothy 1:7
17. Prayer for Healing from Past Hurts
Dear God, there are things that have happened in the past that still hurt me today. Whether it was something someone said or did, or a difficult situation I went through, the pain can sometimes feel overwhelming. But I know that You are the ultimate healer, and that You can mend even the deepest wounds. Please heal my heart from the hurts of the past, and help me to let go of any bitterness or anger that might be holding me back. Fill me with Your peace and love, so that I can move forward with hope and joy. Help me to trust that You are working all things for my good, and that I can find healing in Your arms. Amen.
Scripture: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” – Psalm 147:3
18. Prayer for Gratitude and Contentment
God, it’s easy to focus on the things I don’t have or the things that aren’t going right in my life. But I know that there is so much to be grateful for, and that contentment comes from appreciating what I already have. Please help me to cultivate a heart of gratitude, and to focus on the blessings that You have given me. When I start to feel discontent or dissatisfied, remind me to count my blessings and to give thanks for all that You have provided. Help me to find joy in the simple things, and to be content with where I am right now, knowing that You are always taking care of me. Amen.
Scripture: “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:18
19. Prayer for Wisdom in Making Decisions
Dear God, making decisions can be really hard. Sometimes I don’t know which path to take, and I worry about making the wrong choice. But I know that You are the source of all wisdom, and that You can guide me in every decision I make. Please give me the wisdom to make good choices, and the discernment to know what is best. When I’m faced with a difficult decision, remind me to seek Your guidance and to trust that You will lead me in the right direction. Help me to be patient and to listen for Your voice, knowing that You always have my best interests at heart. Amen.
Scripture: “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” – James 1:5
20. Prayer for Trusting God’s Timing
God, there are times when I want things to happen right away, and it’s hard to wait for Your timing. But I know that Your timing is always perfect, and that You see the bigger picture that I cannot. Please help me to trust in Your timing, even when it feels like things are taking too long. When I start to feel impatient or frustrated, remind me that You are in control, and that everything will happen according to Your perfect plan. Give me the patience to wait on You, and the faith to believe that You are working all things for my good. Amen.
Scripture: “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.” – Ecclesiastes 3:1
Conclusion
In conclusion, confidence and self-esteem are vital parts of living a happy and fulfilling life. These prayers are designed to help you build a strong foundation of self-worth, courage, and trust in God. By praying these prayers regularly, you can grow in confidence and learn to see yourself the way God sees you—valuable, loved, and capable of amazing things.
Remember, it’s okay to have moments of doubt or fear. What matters is that you turn to God in those times and ask for His help. He is always there, ready to give you the strength, wisdom, and courage you need to face any challenge.
